Holding on to things, situations, incidents, and people is quiet a thing nowadays. But is it really necessary to keep holding your life to that one event of your life or a person, who destroyed you in that moment? We block our own ways, we misguide ourselves, and we blame others for that. Yes! it is 100% true, that what happened in past you can’t change it, but after that how you hold yourself together? how you stand up for yourself? how you fight your inner self?… these all can be controlled by you, these are the questions you should ask yourself at least one time before you decide to end up yourself over a person or over an event. Just question yourself for once, is that even worth wasting yourself over blaming the person for whole frigging life?…. NO… just let them go…

I know, its never easy to let go, its never easy to forget, its never easy to forgive what they did to you, because when you keep holding onto something that clearly says that a part of you is broken, a part of you is destroyed, and its never easy to move on from things which tear you apart, but this doesn’t means that we can’t move on, this doesn’t means that we can’t let go… of course! we can. Its not an easy process, infact in my opinion its the most painful one, you get vulnerable, you get destroyed completely, you loath, you hate, you get frustrated, you will be upset, but eventually a day will come when you will get tired of all these emotions, and all you will want is peace, and you will question yourself, you will question your pride, your self respect, and then you will finally be able to let go. It is indeed a very painful process, there will be times when you feel like giving up, you feel weak, but its ok, no one ever said that, recovering from a pain is an easy task, no one ever said that, crushed souls get healed in no time, but when you will heal yourself, when you will forgive yourself, when you will forgive that person, your heart itself will let go your every pain, and every emotion that tormented you. Don’t push yourself, don’t be hard on yourself, just be calm, patience, focused and dedicated towards yourself. After the healing, you might not be the same person you used to be, but you definitely will be a better version of yourself. All you have to do is keep fighting from yourself for yourself, all you have to do is just try to LET GO…